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Wouldn't you know I would spell guru wrong and open the door... Oh well, 
I've set up a filter for all future mail from you.   There are no market 
events that could ever stress me to the extent of your constant babbling 
from your self made pulpit.  I have met people like you a few times in my 
life and their arrogance whispered at you from a "here, let me help you" 
throne is something I find most distasteful.  But maybe others on here 
enjoy your prattle so I will end the thread here by not seeing any future 
posts from you.

I apologize to the list for making this a personal issue within our public 
forum.  I know better.

Bob


At 11:53 AM 1/20/2002 +0000, you wrote:
>Bob,
>
>Thank you for your public reaction - I hear myself in you.
>
>On Date: Sat, 19 Jan 2002 21:09:36 -0800, you wrote to Realtraders:
>--------------------------
>"From: BobsKC <bobskc@xxxxxxxxxxxx>
>Subject: Re: Maybe
>
>Do people actually buy this geru b.s. and pay you for it? Please.. if you
>have something to contribute that has NOTHING to do with the mentality of
>trading, do so. If not, you have burned out that topic several times over.
>Thank you,
>
>Bob"
>-------------------------
>
>Bob,
>
>The word you are looking for maybe 'guru'.     I am no guru, and my 
>services are all free.     Perhaps, that is all they are worth.
>
>Maybe you are projecting onto me where you would be coming from, if you 
>were saying what you perceive I am saying, in the manner you perceive me 
>to be speaking.
>
>Maybe your perceptions are wrong, and maybe you are telling us all 
>something about yourself you would rather be kept hidden if you were more 
>self-aware?
>
>When you feel you are incredibly fortunate, and perhaps have something of 
>value to offer other traders from your experience of both failure and 
>success, you may also wish to give back some of your experience to the 
>trading community.
>
>If you cannot understand this, perhaps you will suspend judgement until 
>you can.   But I think you can understand at a deep level.
>
>Most everything is to do with the psychology of trading.
>
>For example, the need to discuss individual targets, projections, 
>forecasts, entry/exit points for individual trades etcetera is often (but 
>not always) based on a need for reassurance of the wisdom of actions taken 
>or planned, or perhaps based on a need for psychological stroking for a 
>(self-perceived) rare success story.    Both suggest a lack of confidence 
>and thus a lack of long term success.   There are exceptions, but these 
>are the most common deep motivations for discussing such trivia.
>
>For if a trader is more self-aware, then he/she knows that their forecasts 
>etcetera are just tips in the eyes of other traders - and having got past 
>the stage of taking tips themselves, realise the damage tips do to other 
>traders less well developed on the path to trading success.
>
>So I am glad to have been of (irritating) service to you.    I am truly 
>sorry that the opportunity I may have given you has not been of value to 
>you to date, for I can only be as successful for you as you permit me to 
>be.    No strategy works for everyone.    Not everyone is ready, and those 
>that are ready need a range of different prompts, for everyone is both 
>different and the same.
>
>Emotions are your feedback device - only invoked when you recognise you 
>are off a path that could lead to your objectives or aims - this is why 
>the word "upset" is used for people in an highly emotional state.
>
>So what are your emotions feeding back to you?
>
>If emotions are a feedback device they are useful only if you use them for 
>their intended design purpose, and not as a weapon to unsuccessfully 
>project your problems onto others and so as a means of avoiding personal 
>acceptance of the need for change.
>
>So let us look more into alternative approaches based more closely on some 
>sort of shareable objective reality, and not clouded by strong emotions ...
>
>Imagine you took a trade in IBM.      You did well to buy it at 50 and 
>sell it at 100 - a 50 point profit.     Congratulations.
>
>Imagine simultaneously with your purchase and sale, a friend made 5,000 
>points out of IBM - in exactly the same period your directional trade was held.
>
>Impossible you cry.
>
>90 years of DOW data is available free from the internet.   Just search on 
>Google for 'free dow data'.
>
>Over the period of the data, the total move from Jan 2, 1901 to April 24, 
>1998 was 51.6 to 9064.2 - a move of 9,000 points approximately.
>
>In the same period the total path of the market, close to close, was about 
>127,000 points.       If the intra-day movements were available, the path 
>of the market would probably be nearer 1,000,000 points.
>
>So where is the money?     9,000 points in directional move or the 
>approximately 1,000,000 points in market path.
>
>They say in trading you should go for the money!
>
>Volatility provides, on average, about 100 times the opportunity for 
>profits compared to a trend - and getting the trend profits does depends 
>on correctly predicting the direction.
>
>Now you know where over 100% per annum profits can arise regularly and 
>potentially stress free.    As you know, much trader stress relates to ego 
>- self value linked to prediction success or failure.    So using no 
>predictions removes a major source of stress for those of us with an ego 
>like me.
>
>Now you know why some successful traders put up with a life in a trading 
>pit even if they leave for home shortly after the open.
>
>But if your emotions are clouding your perceptions, then yet another 
>opportunity goes by unexploited.
>
>That's life for those of us lucky to have emotions, but unfortunate enough 
>not to know how to use them to our advantage.
>
>This last statement is not entirely correct as those that wallow in their 
>emotions are using their emotions to one kind advantage - wallowing and 
>being able to blame those who are perceived as invoking the 
>emotions.     Sad really, as it is such a waste of a good life experience 
>and potentially useful emotional feedback.
>
>Still, there will always be another opportunity - perhaps this one has 
>your name on it.   I do hope so.
>
>Unconditional regards, Ric.
>www.traderscalm.com
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