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Re: [RT] WRONG thinking.. Part 2



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G O ,
I see your back at the terminal.  G'day
You said at the end of your response to me that you 
essentially empty your mind
of yesterday's trading activity, win or loss, it 
doesn't matter. And each day you approach
as new.
 
You mentioned , ...... where I was yesterday means 
nothing to me where I am going tomorrow means nothing to me...where I am now 
means everything..this is living this is the zone..    I enter 
the market and I am wrong until the market confirms to me I am correct in 
this....market.....Like many great traders have said each day is a new day... 
and I like them ask myself the question each day with all trades... would I put 
this trade on today?? if I answer NO then I pull the trade....you see from my 
heart I have not expected anything.. the market will tell me what it wants me to 
do..... and if I do not listen so be the results and I have to be responsible 
for those results.....I am responsible for my actions.. no one else.... 

 
I can see quite easily that my perspective is 
coming from a desire to be right, which is causing me problems.  Mark 
Douglas says that it is essential to 
clear you mind of one' s convictions and beliefs 
about the market in order for the market to come clean and tell you what it is 
going to do. 
 
How did you discover that you had to keep your 
personal beliefs/convictions  out of your trading ( i.e. You enter a market from 
the point of view of being wrong), when you
have studied and observed the market over a period 
of time?  
 
How did you arrive at a psychology of your mind to 
consider yourself  Wrong until the market confirms you correct.  This 
to me is a great Koan (sp?) 
Since you have to have in your heart a sense of 
where the market is going, yet must keep your conviction?
 
Regards,
 
Don Thompson 
 
 
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  <A href="mailto:enchant@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"; 
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  To: <A 
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  Sent: Tuesday, May 08, 2001 11:47 
PM
  Subject: Re: [RT] WRONG thinking..
    
  Don Thompson wrote: 
  GO... I wasn't trying to get you to justify your 
    self.  I know you know alot. I have only done this thing part time 
    for 10 years and have had 80 percent losing years.Some Self 
  Quetions.... With utmost respect one would need to question if one should 
  continue trading? If one should be a trader? Why is one trading? ....and 
  the list goes on! 
  I have found that most people who are successful in 
    this business the hard way have been doing it for probably over 15 
    years, made and lost several fortunes. I am well on my way to losing my 
    first small fortune...as a have said before most overnight 
  success's take about ten years and most very successful traders are a rare 
  and seperate breed from the mob. 
  I am obviously not an intuitive trader, I have no 
    truck with intuitive traders or people born into trading familys or 
    people who are successful trading.  I was having a "gas" attack about 
    saying youmy apologies I misunderstood  you...maybe it is a 
  cultural thing too..! 
  were a trader, and implied you had no expectation, 
    when your language belies your experience as a trader to expect to be 
    really "a happy chappy" while a tight range is developing, because your 
    experience tells you so.  eh? If that is not forecasting 
    something's "on the horizon", then I don't know how that is different 
    than Mr. McCabe telling the Merrill Lynch crowd that currently we are in 
    a "Calm before the storm".. 
    > still smiling,, "Gentle" Ox.... > and no i do not 
    forecast,,just trade... and I am wrong until proved right > read Ned 
    Davis's book! 
    So your experience, your memory, your respect for your self, your 
    willingness not to put yourself in danger,I do not 
  stand in front of frieght trains but I do not back down from danger 
  either.... "risk = danger" hence the losses and henc the rewards...! 
  the Chinese and Japanese translation of "RISK" is 
  "opportunity riding a dangerous wind" 
  your stop placement  are about trading.  I 
    would expect most newbies, thing trading is trading an opinion, where 
    as you (Gentle Ox)  are trading from experience.  That is what 
    I am getting at.   My point is that you have to 
  forecastI do not have to forecast...... where I was yesterday 
  means nothing to me where I am going tomorrow means nothing to me...where I am 
  now means everything..this is living this is the zone..    I 
  enter the market and I am wrong until the market confirms to me I am correct 
  in this....market.....Like many great traders have said each day is a new 
  day... and I like them ask myself the question each day with all trades... 
  would I put this trade on today?? if I answer NO then I pull the 
  trade....you see from my heart I have not expected anything.. the market will 
  tell me what it wants me to do..... and if I do not listen so be the results 
  and I have to be responsible for those results.....I am responsible for my 
  actions.. no one else.... 
  develope a reasoned or intuitive expectation in 
    order to pick up the phone. If its different then, I am asking you to 
    clarify.. I am not interested in tearing you down as a person, I 
    apologise that you interpreted what I was writting about as a challenge 
    that you had to say Phew.. 
    So when you are proven "wrong".  How do you deal with it? How do you 
    reconcile your expectation with the market being right.
  Life is about mistakes, been wrong.. I take that responsibility on 
  board I do not expect there fore I having nothing to reconcile. The 
  market is always right it is "ipso facto" 
  For example a coflict... If you  go to hit me it is not my 
  problem... you have an anger problem....you mean nothing to me If you 
  go to hit me I will redirect your energy of the blow and I will only take 
  action after you have launched your attack.. not before and not after..but 
  in that very moment you unleash the blow.. Thus the trade........strike 
  only after the trap has been set.... 
  This is what I am interested in. 
    Regards... 
    Don ThompsonIf I can answer any questions I will... 
  remember I can only answer from where I stand not from where you stand.... 
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