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> > May I suggest that much of the mud being slung about, if it must
> > be slung, could be slung quite well in private email?
> 
> Sorry for my bad English. I will try to sling mud in the future.

No, your English is great.  I was talking about the action, not your 
grammar.  And I didn't mean to single you out -- I was trying to 
address the "French insults" behavior on the whole list.

> > What productive purpose is there in insulting each other in 
> > public, in French or not?
> None whatsoever. But as MB asks for being insulted publicly by 
> publicly insulting himself he should always receive his fair share. 
> I cannot see why he should receive any fool bonus which exempts him 
> from public insults when he insults others.

I've always found that responding to people like Mark, especially 
with insults, just encourages him and incites him to do more.  With 
the typical idiot flamer on the net, ignoring him is often the most 
effective way to spoil his fun.  Mark is different, since he has a 
lot to offer if you just get him started -- but productive comments 
& questions are a lot more effective at that than insults in any 
language.

> Giving it back in French has got a huge advantage:
> This way I can give the insult back and the other person can choose 
> whether he understood the return insult or not. I assume that 
> neither Mark Brown nor The Code or any of his other personalities 
> is capable of speaking French.
> This way I hope to prevent a flame war.

Well, either:

1) Mark can't read French (quite possible) and isn't smart enough to 
figure out babelfish (very unlikely), in which case the posts are 
only of interest to anyone who can figure out the French.  If your 
intent is to insult Mark behind his back, to a few people who might 
care, this might be effective.

2) Mark *can* read it, in which case you continue to goad him into 
further unproductive exchanges.  (Which, it turns out, is exactly 
what happened.)

In any case, as Peter said, you still subject the rest of us to your 
bad behavior.  Even if you don't start a flame war, vous produisez 
des flammes.

I've always found that the most effective way to prevent a flame war 
is to not do any flaming yourself, in any language.  French insults 
are still insults, and are still likely to cause flames.  Productive 
conversations come from productive posts.   

Best regards,
Gary